Its a conundrum that many of us eventually get faced with. Where your head is saying yes but your heart is saying no. That even though there are some things that just aren’t quite right you believe also in the benefit of the doubt and a chance to make it right or start again even. Your friends encourage you to look at all the signs and read between the lines. Even when you know they are right why is there that nagging feeling in you that if there was ever that chance to be with him again you would probably go there. How many times did Carrie go back and fourth with Big? Many. He realized her worth almost too late yet he got her back in the end. Is that how it has to be? Is art really the imitation of life? How many go back to try again only to be disappointed and let down. Who wants to hear ‘ I told you so’.
Most know that intuition shouldn’t be ignored and that it has a voice. If your guts is speaking to you it may be time to listen. For it will win in the end. If something is meant to be it will find its way back. It wont move away from you it will slowly make its way to you. Maybe if one is stuck in this kind of situation the best thing to do is listen to your own inner voice and not outside noise. There you will find the answer. If your guts says no then my word get your heels and walk on.