Can a long distance romance survive? In the beginning when all the rush, thrills and spills engulf you, the WHERE you live and the HOW doesn’t matter. Its something that you want to do and you want to try because, well, you want to. That person has captivated you and you want more. Things are going well, you speak everyday and you make plans for weekends, catch ups when you can and you organise your time. You are both in it and it feels like it can work. Things seem to be flowing. Absence as they say makes the heart grow fonder. And in some cases yes it does. It makes you yearn for them and want them more. You appreciate the time you have because its far and few in between. But can it go the distance? Some say yes it can and some say no. It really depends on the couple and the circumstance. If you are destined to be with someone you will. Regardless of the situation. If the calls and the initiation of the other side start to get less and less and your connection starts to wain, even though you don’t want it too, it may be a sign that its not going to keep going. After all, one is going to have to move in order for the relationship to work. A sacrifice by either you or the other will have to happen. So what is it going to be? Difficult decisions happen in love and in life. Love isn’t easy and some things come at a cost. But maybe its all part of the big plan. Maybe going the distance was all part of the journey to get you to where you are meant to be. Some people move mountains for love. Some try by realize that there is only so much you can do. If it cant work and distance becomes a hindrance that cant be overcome then its not meant. Can love conquer kilometers and frequent flyer miles? Anything is possible.